Here are somethings you should not ask when you broke up with someone:
When the person wanna leave you for someone else, the best reply you can give.. is to just let him go.. and you.. to leave silently ..out of his life
1) Do not ask him the reason he left you
- Beacause no matter how good and valid the reason is.. it just makes no sense to you..
To you, you can just pick up the broken pieces of memories but to him.. it means nothing at all..
So no matter what the reason is.. you just cannot accept it ... so wads the point of asking it in the first place?
2) Neber ask him if he had ever love you before
- The reason is.. so what if he once love you deeply and can promise his whole world to you at that time?.. Because no matter what it just meant that the moment he wanna leave you.. he no longer love you.. not anymore... the past is just history to him.. his heart has changed...its gone.. and he's gone.. he no longer have any feelings for you... he feel nth.. nth at all
3) Neber ask him what you have done wrong
- Love is not about right or wrong.. its about who is the one who doesn't cherish the person ... Love is about the special feeling.. towards someone.. if the feeling is gone.. its gone.. his eyes they sparkled but thats all that will change into lies that drop like acid rain.. from the day he left.. so don't blame urself because you did absolutely nth wrong.. he was the oen who made the choice.. he wanted to be free... and you can only try your hardest just to forget everything
4) Neber ask why her? why he choice her?
- Because to him..he already know what he wanna.. she has indeed stolen your world.. to him.. she is all he want at that time.. you should know that means he loved her .. not you anymore so dun ask the question again to insult yourself or to humilate urself to make urself feel more inferior ...
5) Neber ask him dun he remember the happy times you both once had? the memories?
- Don't you understand.. from the time he wants to leave you he already forgot about those memories u both shared.. he no longer wants the happiness he had with you because all he want now is the happiness ahead him and her... not you.. not anymore.. and so what if he say he still rememebr them?.. it will just be part of his memories that will be washed away and replace by new memories he will have with her.. he neber thought of anyone else he jsut saw his pain... so dun cry in the middle of the night fot the same damn thing when u think of those times u had again.. because he neber will noe how much u have been there for him.. how much you have given him.. including your heart..and world.. ur everything
6) Neber ask him or plead him to come back to ur life
- This will only make urself seems so useless in his eyes.. your tears are just weaknesses in his eyes.. life goes on.. you should move on.. you should find someone to live for in this world.. but it is definitely not him.. he washed away he best of u but he dun care.. so why bother for him to come back..
Even he is is back.. first he wanan be free now he says he need you.. he tell u that he love u first then throw his heart into reverse now he comes back... whats the point..? he is just a unfaithful guy,, forget him .. he will neber be by ur side for long.. he will leave again sooner or later anyway... it will just be a detour.. you can't keep coming back to him everytime he is in a good mood to whisper sth sweet in ur ears..
It will be hard to let him into ur life again. coz u will have to make sure all the things he said was true.. its so hard for u to move on coz everytime u're gone he showed up at ur rear view mirror.. the truth is u can't even say goodbye... thats why he knows that.. he took u for granted.. so dun be a fool anymore gerl.. dun be stucked there waiting for him...the days without him .. move on...
Life goes on...
So to those who had just broke up with their loved ones listen up.. lolx
Go back to the begining.. where you neber knew him.. just carry on with ur life.. u have to try to forget him but it just takes a while.. all u need is time.. may be quit long.. but somehow one day u will forget the feelings.. coz nth last forever in this world..
There is always someone by ur side but its just that u didn;t noe how much he had been there always for u.. u neber knew how much it hurts to him to see u cry and see u down .. just like the way u feel for ur ex... try looking around.. u may find ur happiness soon.. ur true love..
Sooner or so life will seems to turn around.... there are still people who cares for you and will feel sad to see you cry..
And dun feel inferior towards the gerl.. everyone has his or her own good personalities and flaws.. no one is perfect.. but meanwhile everyone has their beri own talents.. just be urself.. and dun change urself to suit him or to imitate her just because u feel inferior.. u are neber inferior ..
Just tell him to GETAWAY.. sad to him now u get what u want...u are so moving on since he've been gone.. and u can breathe for the first time... BREAK YOU
He know he did it u're gone.. to look for someone to live for in this world..he's wrong if he think he can walk right through ur door again.. that is just so him coming back when u're already gone... he will not get to see the tears you cry again.. no more..
Rememeber ur life is like a train.. people board and alight at each station and each part of ur life.. there are some types of people that may be in ur memories
First type is those that will board on ur train right from the start ( ur life) and neber will alight or abandon u for another train because they want you and they need you
The second type is those that will board on ur train ( ur life ) to get to their destination..from the start... when they reached the point .. they will alight from ur train ( and walk out of ur life ) .. or to board another train.. ( to find someone else).. its their choice...its just part of ur life to face this.. people comes and goes.. walk in and out of ur life leaving u with memories .. its just means a BEAUTIFUL DISASTER... but come to think of it if people dun leave .. there will be no space for someone better to walk into ur life
The third type is those that may board on ur train ( walk into ur life) at the later part of ur journey.. they may leave after sometime but some may just stay there forever and neber alighting and leaving you.. they will not abandon u anymore because they have found the right cabins on the train.. where they found you..
Life is so short but yet will be so meaningful if u just find the right person.. dun worry if u dun get to find one so soon.. its takes time.. needs to have faith.. let fate decides for u .. someday.. someday believe u will find the one in this world..
They say there is one in this world for everyone.. so i hope all of u can find the someone special soon... if u have found him or her... i wished all of you.. * FoReVer LuRb
Yo! I want you to know that i am a ordinary gerl but i am not just a plain jane next door. I am 18 this year. I am from the Singapore Polytechnic Media & Communications. I love to dance,host and sing I was born on 19 May 1991 I am stubbon at times but thats coz i know what i want in my life. I love Foursome and my family. I'm Jayne Toh!